Makeup That Breakup: 6 Tips For Wooing Back Lost Retail Customers

Here are six ways to win back lost customer love....getty

Seven in 10 relationships reportedly fail within the first year. Are retail-customer relationships any better?

This is the right time of the year to think about it, when millions of people are celebrating their love and relationships. Because for millions of others, this time of year serves as a reminder of love lost, or love never found. And retailers don’t escape this reality.

Retailers and brands are, in fact, in a constant state of wooing, tasked with convincing every single customer that she or he is special; perhaps “the one.” Sometimes they hit the mark, sometimes they don’t. (Case in point: those out-of-the-blue, “Just for you because you’re one of our very best customers” emails to customers who haven’t shopped with them in years.)

Yet the customer retention rate in retail is just 63%, compared with 75% in banking and 78% in telecommunications, according to the payments services company Paddle. After all, it’s relatively easy to leave one retail site or store for another, and oftentimes, the customer has a good reason to shop somewhere else – price, lack of convenience, lack of product, or just general disappointment.

If Your Shoppers Come Back to You, They’re Yours

But customer disappointment doesn’t have to last forever. Retailers can redeem themselves of the common mistakes most likely to cause a customer breakup. Following are six of those breakup triggers, and makeup tips.

  1. You forgot about the date. A retailer doesn’t have to be a Romeo to know that when shoppers show up at the store – by its own invitation – they expect the goods to be there. Yet in late 2022, Chain Store Age reported that 71% of consumers said they were frustrated that out-of-stocks are worse now than before the pandemic. Nearly 60% just switched brands when that happened. Makeup advice: The leading causes of out-of-stocks include inaccurate forecasting and inventory counts, according to Oracle Netsuite. Hey, we all make mistakes, and shoppers may forgive them when the retailer owns up to them. Signage can post online order information for out-of-stocks, so shoppers can get what they came for (ideally, with free shipping).
  2. You were late. Shoppers are increasingly less tolerant of late deliveries. In a 2022 survey by Voxware, 65% of consumers said they would completely abandon a retailer after two or three late deliveries. Makeup advice: Update, update, update. By email, by text, by phone, if necessary. Whole Foods and Amazon set an example to follow with their two-hour delivery service. It sends notifications when the order was placed, when it is being packaged and when it goes out for delivery. Further, tracking options allow the shopper to see exactly where the delivery is en route, and how many stops it is from its destination, so no surprises.
  3. You’re a bad communicator. Any retailers that request customer contact info should be sure it’s got Cyrano-level communications skills. Know your audience – don’t send sweet offers to Roxanne that make no sense to her. And work on your topics of conversation. If you send the same types of messages, over and over, she’ll stop listening. Makeup advice: Choosing the right word requires retailers and brands to first listen and hear what is important to their best customers. Keyword searches, competitive research and customer service correspondence can provide guidance. Cyrano de Bergerac had a great nose, but even better ears.
  4. You forgot your date’s name. Even if a retailer is a good communicator and sends promotions that engage the customer, that retailer loses credibility if it addresses the offers to “Dear Customer.” The shopper may continue to take advantage of the deals, but nothing else, because it’s clear the retailer can’t be bothered to even remember a name. Makeup advice: Use loyalty programs and memberships to personalize customer correspondence. Retailers can train team members to use the shopper’s name when it is available. Hotels are very good at this, because their employees know their customers are really guests. Retailers would do well to adopt the same mindset.
  5. You were used. This tends to occur when retailers woo new reward program members with generous signup perks. This can be an effective enrollment tactic, but a good number of new members may never be back. Makeup advice: In the best relationships, it’s understood that you can’t be all things to one person. Retailers can show one-and-done shoppers that there’s much more to them than meets the eye. Co-branding reward program partnerships, such as those between Kroger and Shell or Target and Ulta, offer a more complex and enriching program relationship.
  6. You were boring. Look around at the competition, retailers. Dollar General has glammed up its look with the youthful chain Popshelf. Walmart is testing interactive concept stores. Amazon has stopped rolling out Amazon Fresh stores until it figures out how to distinguish them from the competition, RetailWire has reported. Makeup advice: A retail experience that stays exactly the same is reliable, yes, but it can become so ho-hum. This is where retailers can spot shoppers who come for habit, not for loyalty. But loyalty can be won if the retailer follows its shoppers and makes small adjustments to help them feel more important. These do not have to be expensive tweaks. Walmart’s concept store includes improved lighting, a simple effort that can extend a shopping date.

Lastly: You Didn’t Call Back!

Look, pretty much every shopper transaction is tracked today, so the capabilities exist to send even in-store shoppers a text or email after a purchase to thank them and ask for feedback (maybe another shopping date?).

These follow-up communications must stand up to scrutiny. They need to be thoughtful, complimentary and generous in sentiment. Like Tesla did in 2016, when it sent buyers of its Model 3 hand sketches of the vehicle. Or how beauty brands do, when they send free samples with online orders.

However, retailers should not act desperate. The whiff of desperation is real (looking at you, Bed Bath & Beyond). Profitable courtships take momentum, while on-again, off-again shopper relationships can cost a lot. Know when to let go.

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I have been building and sharing expertise in the retail industry for 20+ years. My wheelhouse includes customer relationship management, shopper

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The Fastest Way To Get Over a Breakup and Grow

Jan Buchczik

Literature is full of brutally jilted lovers and cruelly broken hearts, whether Anna Karenina’s or Heathcliff’s in Wuthering Heights. But for my money, the most extreme case is Miss Havisham in Charles Dickens’s Great Expectations. In the classic novel, she never gets over the pain of being abandoned at the altar on her wedding day, decades before. Shut away in her dark house, Miss Havisham is described as a cross between a skeleton and a wax statue, frozen in a state of traumatic rejection.

As cartoonish as these characters are, they can seem achingly realistic to readers in the midst of the terrible heartbreak that can come when a romance ends. Miss Havisham’s fate seems plausible: You will never again see love as anything more than an exercise in futility. Little by little, of course, most people do get over a breakup, move on, and, eventually, love someone else. In those early days and months, however, the pain can feel like it will never end.

There is no magical remedy for a bad breakup, but that doesn’t mean you have to just suffer and read Victorian novels while you wait to feel better. There’s actually a lot you can do to speed the healing process, learn from the experience, and find new love (and, ideally, not make the same mistake again).

Breaking up is part of an ordinary life. Although the data are limited and results vary widely, some U.K. research estimates that people average roughly two serious relationships before settling into one that is considered permanent. In 2013, the average number of times Americans said their heart had been broken was five.

If your breakups have been awful, that’s normal. According to a 2018 poll from YouGov, 58 percent of American adults say breakups tend to be “dramatic/messy.” Only 25 percent said they tend to be “casual/civil.” No wonder people try to avoid them: Scholars who recently surveyed adults ages 18 to 29 found that about half said it was either moderately or exactly true that “I sometimes stay in a relationship longer than I should because I don’t know how to end it.”

Breakups, at least for the breakee, are literally painful. Modern neuroscience has found repeatedly that social pain—of which abandonment is an especially acute example—can stimulate many of the same brain regions as physical pain, notably the anterior insula and the anterior cingulate cortex. When you are in great pain, it can be hard to comprehend that you’ll ever feel better. Indeed, people experiencing depression often say that they forget what “normal” feels like.

But the pain does diminish. Psychologists writing in 2007 in the Journal of Experimental Social Psychology found that when a romantic relationship dissolves, the average person rates her stress at a bit more than three on a one-to-seven scale of severity. Each week, that number falls, on average, by about 0.07. Think of it this way: If your grief is a solid 3.5 after a breakup, assuming you follow the average pattern, you can expect to feel better each week and only about half as bad after six months—a longer time than you perhaps want or expect, but not a permanent state of affairs.

Especially after a long relationship, a breakup can make you feel like you’ll never find love again. You most likely will, though, and maybe sooner than you think. One 2013 study published in the science journal PLOS One found that the length of the dissolved relationship is positively correlated with the proclivity of the newly single to rebound into a new relationship. Whether your specific rebound relationship is a good thing is something you have to decide, but the data suggest that you will be able to open your heart again.

Knowing your emotional wounds will heal with time doesn’t necessarily make sitting through the pain any easier in the early aftermath of an ugly split. There are a few things you can do to hasten the process of feeling better, however.

1. Think about what a jerk your ex is.

In one of the most novel experiments I have seen in the past few years, researchers at the University of Missouri recruited people upset after a breakup to try different techniques to reduce their feelings of love toward their ex and lighten their unpleasant mood. The researchers measured the effectiveness of each approach by showing the participants photos of their ex-partner while observing their brain activity on an electroencephalogram and asking them how they felt.

When participants were instructed to think about what they truly disliked about the person they loved—for example, by focusing on questions such as “What is an annoying habit of your ex?”—their feelings of love fell by a whopping 18 percent. It didn’t come without a cost, though: It also temporarily lowered the overall pleasantness of mood by 17 percent. You have to decide whether reduced heartbreak outweighs the unpleasant memory of your ex’s bad habit. If it doesn’t, move on to technique No. 2.

2. Go have fun.

Another strategy tested in the paper above was distraction. The participants were instructed to think about positive things in their lives, such as their favorite food. This was also effective, but in a different way: Although love feelings for the ex did not decrease, mood improved by 8 percent on average. So if your principal problem after a breakup is fixating on how much you love your ex, meditate on him picking his nose. But if your problem is that you’re feeling depressed, do something fun and enjoyable to occupy your mind. Read a good book, maybe, or go for a hike (perhaps not where you and your ex liked to go).

3. Put on some sad music.

Psychologists over the years have repeatedly remarked on what seems like counterproductive behavior when people feel sad: listening to sad songs. After a breakup, you should listen to “Happy,” not “I Will Always Love You,” right?

Actually, sad music can benefit a broken heart. Writing in the journal The Arts in Psychotherapy in 2016, a psychologist reviewed the available studies and found that people seek out sad music in order to help themselves understand and find meaning in their emotions. Breakup songs can help you feel less alone in your suffering and less unique in your misfortune. And sitting with your bad feelings (rather than pushing them away) is important for your emotional well-being and growth.

In this essay, I have offered you a few ways to shorten your heartbreak. Here is one way to extend it: Keep tabs on your ex on social media. This is strikingly common; in a 2011 study, 54.3 percent of college students confessed to having perused an ex’s social-media posts in search of photos with a new partner.

In the race for fresh ways for tech to hijack our brain chemistry and make us insane, there is a huge, obvious market for an app that surveils exes and sends alerts to your phone when they look happy. You might call it Creepster, or perhaps, Havisham.

As tempting as it might be, such surveillance is a huge mistake for happiness. Research on Facebook stalking shows that it is associated with greater distress, longing, negative feelings, and sexual desire for the ex-partner; it also inhibits personal growth in the wake of the split. It is a near-perfect way to ensure that you don’t feel better.

In order to get over a breakup, you have to let your life move on and let your ex’s life move on as well. Don’t hold on to the source of your suffering. Your pain will decrease, you will be able to love again, and you can leave Miss Havisham to wander her lonely house without you.

By Arthur C. Brooks

Source: The Fastest Way to Get Over a Breakup and Grow – The Atlantic

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Credit Suisse To Tighten The Reins After String of Scandals

Credit Suisse will unveil a new centralized structure on Thursday in an attempt to bring its far-flung divisions to heel and draw a line under a string of scandals that have cost the Swiss bank billions of dollars, two sources said.

Over the past year, Credit Suisse has been fined for arranging a fraudulent loan to Mozambique, tarnished by its involvement with defunct financier Greensill, racked up $5.5 billion in losses when U.S. family office Archegos collapsed, and been rebuked by regulators for spying on executives.

Credit Suisse drafted in seasoned banker Antonio Horta-Osorio as chairman in April to stop the rot and he will lay out his charter to reform Switzerland’s second-biggest bank on Thursday when it presents third-quarter results.

One key change is expected to be the creation of a single wealth management division that caters to a global elite, centralizing oversight at the bank’s headquarters in Zurich, two people familiar with the matter told Reuters.

Under the current structure put in place six years ago, wealth management straddles three divisions: a Swiss business, an Asia-Pacific arm catering mainly to rich Chinese and an international arm based out of Switzerland.

Merging the wealth division would make Credit Suisse simpler and potentially pave the way for cost cuts.It would also rein in local bankers who have enjoyed much autonomy, making them more answerable to senior managers who have often been blindsided by the risks that triggered past scandals, the sources said.

One of the people told Reuters that managers at the bank’s headquarters had become very risk averse and they did not want to give leeway to local bankers, regardless of how much profit they were making. A spokesman for Credit Suisse declined to comment.

Credit Suisse’s financial humiliation stands in stark contrast to its cross-town rival UBS (UBSG.S). In the wake of massive losses and a bailout during the financial crisis, UBS successfully pivoted away from investment banking to wealth management and is now the world’s largest wealth manager with $3.2 trillion in invested assets.

Its shares have climbed 57% in the past 10 years while Credit Suisse has slumped 53% over the same period.Shareholders have deserted Credit Suisse this year following the slew of bad headlines. Its shares are down 12% while UBS is up 36% while Wall Street rivals are riding high on the back of a boom in equity trading and M&A.

Andreas Venditti, an analyst at Swiss private bank Vontobel, said it would take more than “minor changes and a new divisional set-up” at Credit Suisse to reverse the trend.The expected revamp at Credit Suisse has also encouraged some high-profile dealmakers to approach the bank’s senior management to suggest it merges with a rival, another person with knowledge of the matter said.

Those ideas have been rejected so far, however, the person said. Nonetheless, the prospect of a challenge by investors demanding the break-up of the bank, or that its shrinking market value makes it a target for a hostile foreign takeover, have long troubled managers, sources told Reuters earlier this year.

‘WARNING SIGNALS’

With a market value of $28 billion, Credit Suisse is worth less than half of UBS and a fraction of Wall Street giants such as JPMorgan (JPM.N) weighing in at half a trillion dollars. But an approach from the United States would not go down well in Switzerland. Relations between Swiss banks and Washington were damaged when the United States pressured them into giving up their strict secrecy code more than a decade ago.

A combination of Credit Suisse and UBS, which has been touted as an alternative alliance, would face its own problems. For one, it would dominate the Swiss market. Another source said that while Credit Suisse had examined a sale or spin-off of its asset management business, that had been shelved. The person said, however, that once further efforts were made to cut costs and boost growth, a sale, or listing of the business on the market, could be back on the cards.

The bank’s drive to centralize its operations is drawing on lessons from some of its recent failures, including Archegos. Earlier this year, Credit Suisse published a report blaming a focus on maximizing short-term profits and enabling “voracious risk-taking” by Archegos for failing to steer the bank away from catastrophe.

Despite long-running discussions about Archegos – by far the bank’s largest hedge fund client – Credit Suisse’s top management were apparently unaware of the risks it was taking.

The bank’s chief risk officer and the head of its investment bank recall hearing about it first only on the eve of the fund’s collapse. “There were numerous warning signals,” the report said. “Yet the business … failed to heed these signs.”

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Source: Credit Suisse to tighten the reins after string of scandals | Reuters

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Related Contents:

B. H. Meyer; Hans Dietler (1899). “The Regulation and Nationalization of the Swiss Railways

Hill, Kelly (1999). Cases in Corporate Acquisitions, Buyouts, Mergers, and Takeovers. Gale. ISBN 0-7876-3894-3.

Atkinson, Mark (4 August 2000). “Swiss banks agree $1.25bn Holocaust deal”. The Guardian

Grant, Linda (19 August 1996). “Will CS First Boston Ever Win?”. Fortune. pp. 30–34. Archived from the original

Strom, Stephanie (30 July 1999). “Japan Revokes Credit Suisse Unit’s Banking License”. The New York Times.

Kandell, Jonathan (March 2012). “Swiss Banks Adjusting To Radical New Regulations”. Institutional Investor. Vol. 46 no. 2. p. 33.

Crawford, David (8 November 2012). “Germany Probes UBS Staff on Tax-Evasion Allegations”. The Wall

Owen Walker (30 July 2020). “Credit Suisse launches restructuring after trading profit boost

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